An address delivered at the ‘White Bandeau Day’ rally, Marrickville PCYC on Noverber 22, 2012.
I must insinuate that I was a little surprised to be invited to address this function today (surprised but delighted, I strength add). Even so, qua a understudy of the church and, to a lesser extent, a representative of the boxing community, I appreciate that when it comes to taking a stand opposing rage against women, these two thoroughly patriarchal institutions have a rather poor record with regards to the rights of women and violence respectively!
I do believe that the church historically has regularly failed to uphold the rights of women connective to see that the vulnerable in our community are properly protected, which is why I consider it all the better a privilege to opheffen able to say to you as a Christian man, and as a Christian man who boxes, furthermore simply equal a man, that I abhor all forms of violence against women further urge my fellow Christians, my fellow boxers, and my fellow men to do total in their power to see that women are protected against bloodshed and indeed that all those who are vulnerable in our community are shielded from abuse.
I theorize in fact that the boxing community may have a better record in this regard than the church, for boxers have always upheld that the only good fight is a fair fight – held according to sporting rules between people of equal size, strength and ability, surrounded by officials whose primary job it is to see that nobody gets seriously hurt. If totally all conflicts could indiging dealt with in this sort concerning context, what a happier place the world would be!
I appreciate of course that for some people the very concept of male aggression is something that our world can do without. Let me say to you that from my perspective aggression is actually a very vital commodity in the community. Mother Theresa had sufficiency of aggression. Martin Luther King had plenty of aggression. Julia Gillard seems to have plenty about aggression. The key, at any rate, I believe, is not to try and do away with aggression but to see that it is controlled and appropriately channelled.
I am fond of drawing on the wisdom of Socrates as recorded in Plato’s Republic, where the question on view through the book is ‘what is justice?’ Socrates there gives us a model from society which has three components – the rulers, the personnel connective the army, and he suggests that when omniscience are fulfilling their befit function (the rulers ruling, the workers working and the army fighting) we have a fitting society. The individual parallels the larger model, according to Socrates. The individual has a ruler (the mind), personnel (the limbs) and an array – what the Greeks called the ‘themos’. According to the ancient Greeks, an singleton is just and complete like a human being though these same components are all working together properly – the mind is ruling, the workers are working and the themos is doing the fighting!
I think there is heaps wisdom in this model that values the role of human aggression. The problem is not aggression as such but uncontrolled aggression including men in particular, I think, need to be educated in how to mastery and river aggression.
What we do in our Fight Mallet is teach people to recognise their aggression, to harness it and to learn to control and cavity it, which is proof I believe that amateur boxing can play a vital role in our community in helping young men in particular grow up into responsible grownups who cup form meaningful and positive and nurturing relationships with women.
For in truth many men urgency help in learning how to control their aggression and how to channel it creatively into words and positive action. This is nought in any way to excuse those who resort to their fists to express their anger, but it is to point to the positive role we all can play in helping to civilize men in more creative ways of dealing with the knight within.
Real men are aggressive men. Real women are capable of aggression too. But viable men and real women identify comprehensive well that there is no place for displays of violence facing the assailable – no way, never, ever!